So much talk and buzz has come out since the day P. Diddy came out with his poor excuse of an apology last week. There are so many side issues that come about when exploring this whole topic.
So today, this segment will be dedicated to describing the personality characteristics of a domestic abuser. Some may be shocked while reading through this, because what society has always believed to be true about these people, is not actually entirely accurate.
Let’s get some myths taken care of right now.
A domestic abuser is not always a male. They can also be female. Next, domestic abusers did not ALL come from abusive backgrounds from their childhoods. As a matter of fact the abuser will often use this as a tactic to gain someone’s sympathy and present themselves as a victim to get more attention. Lastly, a domestic abuser isn’t always the blue collar worker that is tall and muscular, Actually, white collar works who appear well-groomed and professional can sometimes be one of the worst of the abusers, because they can look the part of a “nice, clean guy” and conceal their aggressive behaviors.
Narcissist vs. Sociopath
A narcissistic person requires excessive admiration. They dream of being the most powerful above all. They fell entitled to have special treatment. They are often arrogant, and they have no regard or empathy for how other people feel. They have a grandiose sense of self-importance, and tend to exaggerate their accomplishments and achievements.
The sociopath, on the other hand, is quite different. They are more calculating and a lot of their actions are often premeditated. Sociopaths are more cunning and manipulative. The key word here is MANIPULATIVE. Sociopaths are the ULTIMATE CON ARTISTS. That is what makes them very distinct from the narcissist. Sociopaths know how to change their persona to fit their mission and goal, or to conquer their “prey”. And, If you call them out on their behavior, they disappear or cut you off, or they leave you.
Common traits for both narcissists and sociopaths:
Do you know anyone like this? If so, best get out of the relationship quick!